If the people under your care
have to do gymnastics to get simple stuff done,
lets call it what it is: a failed system.
If people have to bribe to survive ,
don’t be hard handed on the bribery without considering why they are doing it in the first place.
If your ecosystem only benefits a few then it’s petty myopic to call all those who are falling behind “lazy”.
When we create systems that fail people, some will figure out the mental and emotional gymnastics to make it work,
but don’t hold it against those who refuse to make the marathon of life into a gymnasium mat.