Honesty does.Time can mask the pain,Give us other things to think aboutPut some distance between usAnd the woundBut it will not heal usIt will not make us whole.Words left unsaidLeave a deafening silenceThat won’t be filledBy ticking of the clock-Time heals nothing.Say what needs to be said.Read more "Time heals nothing"
It’s easy to think That the only useful parts Of our story Are the victories; The well implemented model The picture perfect event The thriving relationship. These are the parts we are Most inclined to share with others- Our journey of overcoming. But human life is littered with setbacks, Our good days are punctuated with […]Read more "Everything is data"
Life is complex.And that complexityIs often hard to sit with,To look it in the eyeTo give it a name.We don’t always feelThe way we think we shouldAnd reality routinely ignoresThe scripts our minds write for it,So we find ourslvesSitting with things in our lapsThat are deeply familiarYet disturbingly beyond us,And too often choose to plunge […]Read more "White washing"
Is often the hardest thing to say.It takes up so much real estateIn your mind, yetYou’ve become accustomedTo suppressing it,Brushing it off,Kicking the can down an endless road,Only to find that the you’re kicking itDeeper into your psyche,Where its taking rootAnd changing your mental landscape.And though the wordsMay never be found on your lips,They speak […]Read more "The thing you most need to say"
Is not the sameAs having answers.And it takes someMaturityTo acknowledgeThat what you have to offerIs not what is needed.Saying that you don’t haveA good answerNeed not be a walk of shame,But rather a signalTo yourself and othersThat you are not using this momentIn service of your egoTo pad a false personaOf Omniscience.Sure, you may know […]Read more "Having information"
Is dangerous It uncovers things we were happier To leave unseen Unsaid It leaves nowhere to hide No more corners to play the victim No more darkness to retreat into It kills the need for further explanation The facts speak for themselves It grinds over-explanation to a halt Incessant apologies finally no longer need to […]Read more "Honesty"
Brave faces are what we put on when everything isn’t okay at home.A show of strengthThe forced smile in public places.The half-hearted appearance at gatherings like a mindless roll call.A lot of the fodder on our newsfeeds are brave facesThe pleasant but joyless phone call.Putting on a brave face is not bravery at allIts going […]Read more "Brave Faces vs. Brave Hearts"
I recently started a new job.Its a chance to decide, againHow I am going to show up.To determine what kind of energyPeople can expect from me.A clean slate of sorts.However, I have also noticedAn inner pull to want to be the safestVersion of myself.To censor insights and ideas that might notQuite fit with how things […]Read more "On mute"
Rising from poverty Is not the same as rising from blackness. While it is true that many black people are poor Being black is not synonymous with being poor. For the African health care professionals making their way into the middle class, It often occurs that progress in your career Can translate to a wrestle […]Read more "The African Professional"
Having nothing profound to say Is not the same as having nothing to say, Sometimes the important things don’t have a ‘wow’ factor, Sometimes we just need to talk about them because they need mentioning On the other hand, there is nothing worse than creating a bigger hype about what you are doing Than the […]Read more "Distortion"